Not too long ago I was in conversation with negative and critical talk about church…then the disparaging remarks were justified in the name of love…yeah right? As I read the New Testament I find rebukes in the name of Jesus, I see correction and admonition for Godly living, and I see Paul reprimanding the church at Corinth. However, I don’t see a lot of, if any (please feel free to correct me if I am wrong), dudes sitting around picking the church apart! Especially brothers and sisters in Christ!
You have to love Paul recognizing the church at Ephesus for BEing a church that really got it. They did it simply with their love. And folks, that’s what it’s all about – love. Paul, in his perceptive observation, tells them that he would pray that they continue loving. Sadly, just 30 years later we read in Revelation 2, the bad news…they lost that loving feeling. But it wasn’t a feeling. It was the power of God residing in them…gone. Here’s my question: How did they lose their first love? How did they lose focus on Jesus? You have to wonder…it could have been that they focused on the negative more than the positive. It could have been that discouragement ruled the day. Maybe it was just a critical spirit let loose to roam around.
I have learned this: Real friends will tell you when you are wrong, but they will not tear you down. I happen to like focusing on positive accomplishments stemming from our obedience to the Lord Jesus. There are some great, great things going on in the life of Friend Church. So I decided to do something every now and then…look back at the victories in the life of FC:
*We have baptized 40 plus new believers in Jesus in the last 12 months
*FC has responded by giving thousands of dollars to local and state-wide missions in the last 60 days
*Our church alone (just us, our gifts) has passed out 50,000 plus Bibles in China
*Many of our “Friends” work each weekend ministering to the homeless downtown Columbia
*Bikers started their own church using our facility…it’s grown to about 65 each Friday night
*Maybe the most important: People are loving one another…there’s nothing they won’t do for each other
I love friends, and I love victories…I think I will continue to share friend victories…we need them!!!!















